I am favor!

The Lord asked me a question as it relates to men inquiring of women. He asked; “how does he see you?” The Lord continued to expand my vision of a woman’s worth and how a man should envision her. It is not God’s plan for a man to explore multiple women, despite what men think or how men of old have made that an requirement for our young men! Young men are told to sow their wild oats, but they didn't tell the young man that the seeds he sow will become his field to labor. God's desire is for men to be in pursuit of one woman that will influence him to become magnified and that woman will be an expression of her husbands glory.

“For a man ought not to wear anything on his head [in church], for he is the image and [reflected] glory of God [his function of government reflects the majesty of the divine Rule]; but woman is [the expression of] man’s glory (majesty, preeminence).” 1 Corinthians 11:7 AMPC

The Lord asked me; when a man thinks of you does he envision you as the woman he desires to see walking down the aisle? When he sees you does he envision himself purchasing an engagement ring with hopes that this woman will be the source of his peace? Does he envision himself coming home and embracing you as his wife, to be the woman to bare his children, while having a feeling of peace and satisfaction because he has made a choice to build and steer his family within the vision God has given him? Or does he envision you as someone he wants to overtake or conquer; to ultimately engage with... for a season... then walk away and leave you in void or displaced? He asked me again..., how does he see you? So I want to ask you, how does the man that you allow to occupy your space see you?

We as women must be redefined in purpose with an intention of being someone's pursuit. If he cannot see you as his wife, as a woman of value and worth it is your duty to adjust what he sees; in other words, adjust the reflection that you display. Make sure your value and worth demands to be front and center. The character you present will set the tone or the environment for his reaction towards you.

On the other side, if he engages with you and he does not see your value and he refuses to realign or position himself to retrieve the wealth of your favor; in most cases, this man is immature and definitely not in search for a wife. This man is lacking insight of who you are, being that you are a rare commodity and his eyes certainly cannot see the value of your jewels! A man that cannot see your worth or value is an automatic road block and his pursuit is not aligned with Godly purpose or intentions. Let your mind be renewed because you are a mans favor obtained!!!

“A capable, intelligent, and virtuous woman–who is he... who can find her? She is far more precious than jewels and her value is far above rubies or pearls.” Proverbs 31:10 AMPC

As a woman you must become his pursuit desired! Such as, be the woman that cannot be approached recklessly, he has to have a plan of pursuit before he approach you. Be the woman that cannot be tampered with or spoken to with words that do not guarantee your attention or align with God’s truth that's within you. He is aware and is cautious of anyone else pursuing the favor that is within you and cannot chance losing his catch.

Be the woman that has purpose with her every stride and focused on her craft. A man that can see your worth would not dare disturb your flow without the intent to enhance you with his strength and valor. Sister, you must redefine your stance and become his favor obtained! Become a NECESSITY and not an option, for a man to succeed beyond his current phase, that man must obtain his favor in order to multiply in peace and harmony in the earth. Without hesitation, excuse anyone that considers tampering with your door of worth or interrupt your flow of purpose without a plan to enhance you into his abundance and stature. My beautiful sister, redirect your thoughts to embrace the value of your worth and refuse to allow your worth to become someone’s seasonal..., optional pleasure. There is a lifetime of favor within you, only unlock your rare commodities for a man that understands that you are HIS FAVOR OBTAINED!!

When a man finds a wife... he finds what is good... He finds his treasure, and obtains favor from the Lord. Proverbs 18:22

My Confession of Passion:

Lord you know how to deliver me from every temptation within my soul; every temptation of lust with selfish intent. Forgive me of my sins and deliver me from my weakest moments! I declare that my body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. I relinquish my truth and every way that seems right to me. I humble myself and surrender my heart and ask you to renew my thoughts and deliver me from every destructive path. Open the eyes of my understanding to see the rarity of my jewels and the favor within me. Redefine my truth and teach me how to resist untimely or worthless pursuit. Expose every man that desires to seek seasonal pleasure and reveal to me the man of valor that pursues with Godly intentions. Give me knowledge of my craft and talents and bless the works of my hands so that I may stride in my purpose and identity. I declare that I AM FAVOR! And I must be obtained with Godly pursuit to unlock the doors of my favor! Amen! In Jesus Name!

-My Passion Confessions

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